Life is simple if you make it so.
Girls like cars so get one. People like people who say nice things and listen, so do what people like.
People like money so learn how to get rich or learn how to fake it. Learn how to count cards at casinos, or study the stock market.
If you want lady friends join a club or interest with an oversupply of women. Join a Netball, sewing or Ballroom dancing club. If you take up Balet you will likely be the only non-gay guy available.
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My real advice would be to find something you like and do it. Chances are you will get good at it and meet friends who appreciate your passion. Girls will come to you. It is really the girls who do the chasing anyway they just pretend to be the ones being chased.
Life is simple. Don't complicate it with too many questions.
Yes I dream of a world where I am the only man alive and have to service all the women of the planet. And we all live in the trees like Tarzan.
My real world is close enough to ideal anyway. There is an excess of single women in Brisbane and I ccouldn't be bothered playing Casonova.