Do I just have a different way of thinking?

Question

When someone dies I usually want to party because there now dead and lived a great life...i mean why not?....they would probably want it!...and when someone says something hertful to me I laugh and do nothing because there stupid...I just don't feel emotionaly 'attached' as I used to...accually I've never been that attached to my emotions....I just always remind myself that the world is constantly moving around me and I just need to live my life w/o regrets, is the healthy?

Answer 1

It can be healthy, sure. However calling them "stupid" is a sign of something else.

Answer 2

I offer this for your concideration. Intention is the key (skillful means come next). Where is your intention eminating from, only you can answer this. Is it egocentric (self concern), is it more developed? You have to look into the source of your intent.



Skillful means is another story. Be skillful, how you feel and how you act are not always the same thing. Take care, when appropriate, not to upset the balance of others.



Judging others as stupid certainly does not depict maturity, sophistication, morality or skillfulness, however, you may have just used the word losely (ignorant may have been better), in which case all power to you.



Remember, you are responsable for your health.



Take care.

Answer 3

we're all on different developmental levels I think when it comes to our perceptions on life and death. Your's may be yours and others have their own beliefs, doesn't make any of us stupid until we try to make everyone conform to our own way of thinking and believing.



It does seem callous, however, if you truly do not understand the deep and profound loss people feel experiencing the death of loved ones and friends. I should think with your high level of enlightenment you could at least be compassionate with the feelings of others. No matter what we believe, it's still honestly not all about us.

Answer 4

everything is good untill hurts somebody--you may party but the people who are in the sarrow of the lost people will always get hurt--- giving respect to other feelings is real religious and philosophical theme....just get more thinkings about your idea and analyse it from the others view and see if you where there in their place.... what will be your feelings ....and thats life and its the real repect you give to the people who lived the great life

Answer 5

There is a difference between emotional and sensitive. Everyone expresses themselves in different ways, pay attention to the mood of the crowd. Party all you want and probably everyone will dance at your funeral. You sound like an idiot. "Different way of thinking?" Sounds like you have no thought process at all. Sorry, clown.

Answer 6

its good. but dont over do it especially in a place wer people have lost loved ones, u could hurt them real bad.

Answer 7

I think it is OK Because you are celebrating their wonderful life that they had And well screw the people that think it is wrong because I dont think it is at all.

Answer 8

Sounds as though its healthy for you.



What else matters?



Peace

Answer 9

My sister has the mantra which I've adopted....'Normal is relative'.... gotta do what works for you!

Answer 10

i know people who think the same way.

Answer 11

Yes, I'm jealous. Lucky. Idk about the death part, but everything else are things that I wish that I could do.

Answer 12

you should be ashamed, you fuc**** party when someone dies, thats sick dude!