Can you give me life advice?

Question

I don't know what I am capable of doing with my life.

I'm not incredibly smart.
I'm not artistic at all.
I'm not athletic.
I'm not pretty.
I'm not even funny, nor do I have any social skills that will help me network.
In fact I'm an emotional mess who is often depressed and is too afraid to drive, let alone undertake ambitious life goals.

I don't have a niche.

How can someone like me be successful in life?

Or should I just die off?

Answer 1

Hit the gym, it'll improve your looks and give you more confidence, which can also help you in social situations. You don't have to work on boring fitness equipment, try a few classes (like dancing, spinning or martial arts) to find something you like, having something you're passionate about can help you find joy in life or at least give you some structure and purpose. Maybe you can try a field sport like hockey or soccer, playing together with a team can advance your social skills greatly and chances are you'll make great new friends! It's okay if you're not super smart too, but everyone can learn basic things, you can take language lessons (such as French or Russian) or cooking classes to help you find an interesting job, and even if you don't, you might discover an engaging new hobby.

Answer 2

I don't think any one person can give you the best advice. They will just guide you..tell you not to be depressed and do something which you always wanted to do like start taking dance classes or learn a new instrument. And that is what we can do. Guide you. Now, whether you'll accept our ideas or not is up to you. But there are some thing's in life which might be of minor importance to many, but are really helpful in times of loneliness. Like spending time with pets..any pet. Try to learn something new. That would really bring pleasure to your mind. Try singing. If you can't sing, try dancing. Try to keep yourself busy with the things you always wanted to do or try and I'm sure then you would probably not feel so bad about yourself.

Answer 3

Add "yet" to all those, I'm not statements.



And don't focus on a specific thing. Read Cal Newport books and get some career capital. F the haters, just get to work on something. Wait for the jobs to get listed as what's in demand and then start training the second you like something. The key is to build up the love for whatever it is. So it's important to commit and ignore negative people. You might have to wait to talk to some people because one shift in momentum is a game killer. One suggestion can throw your personal hype train off the tracks. You'll get there. Just not yet.



And believe it or not. All this thinking is based on other peoples expectations. That's what you feel they feel about you from not being there in the proper role of support. Get away. Like if you were in a crazy storm in the ocean. If you are outside you will hear the noisy waves, which could kill you. Even from how cold they are (the waves are the toxic people). I mean, just get in your boat, in doors and stop listening to the crazy crashing waves. Keep sailin forwards.

Answer 4

You are very well versed in that which you do not like. Might I suggest that you begin spending more time studying that which you do? Take time every day to close your eyes and focus on thoughts that make you happy. Then when each thought begins to shift toward lack, switch to another one.



Your thoughts create your reality so focusing them on lack, "I'm not artistic at all. I'm not athletic. I'm not pretty. I'm not even funny" only creates more lack. You become really good at noticing what you're not good at. On the other hand, if you start becoming skilled at focusing on what you like, you will begin to notice more things you like.So if during the course of practicing thinking about what you like, the thought of flowers keeps showing up, and you find yourself being offered a job at a flower shop, don't be surprised.



Undertaking "ambitious life goals" doesn't really do you any good when you don't know what you want. It's a bit like saying, "I want to go 100 miles per hour" but having no clue which direction. Slow down, get your bearings straight, then go with the flow of the universe.















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Living life loving

Answer 5

Sounds like your demotivated and oftenly taking meds which make your depression 10 fold. The answer is not what you expect and you will definetly hate it while going through torcher, but the end results is you will be motivated. You cannot have a passion if your not motivated and you cannot be motivated unless your all in for the count. You, my friend, are clearly not, practically given up with the realization of of needing to reach out which is good and the first step to changing for the better.



1. Stop taking antidepressants.

2. Do naked sit ups in your room with the door closed for fun on a yoga matt. 20 a day should do.

3. Walk around the block 1 time every 3 days as something to look forward to.

4. Eat your favorite icecream in the whole world at the end of each week for rewarding yourself for your progress.



It is easier said than done, but if you do this for 2 months, you will become motivated again. From there, take it one step at a time and find out what enspires you and

Answer 6

Just BE. Be yourself, be calm, and be confident that it will be alright.



Don’t be a victim of the Grand Illusion. No one is happy all of the time, and no one has it any easier than anyone else. Life is about perception. If you are not able to see and enjoy the good in your life, all the fame and money in the world could not make you happy for long. Worrying about what others have or do is silly. The meaning and happiness in your life must come from you.



What we are all looking for is peace of mind. Peace of mind is simply the absence of mental stress or anxiety.



Happiness is an attitude of mind, born of the simple determination to be happy under all outward circumstances. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes their way. Love and joy is an emotional experience, not an activity necessarily.



I have been working on my personal mental attitude for many years and have gotten a good hold on it. I choose to have a positive mental attitude and I almost always feel happy.



The greatest discovery of my generation is that we can alter our life simply by altering our attitude of mind. We cannot change our past. We cannot change the fact that people act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude.



By maintaining a positive, grateful, and constructive attitude toward life, we can ensure that we keep an open mind and always do our best to steer our lives in the direction we would choose for ourselves.



The greatest day in your life and mine is when we take total responsibility for our attitudes. That's the day we truly grow up. Attitudes are a secret power working twenty-four hours a day, for good or bad. It is of paramount importance that we know how to harness and control this great force.





Our attitudes control our emotions. Our emotions control our lives. We control our attitudes.



Good luck, love, and peace to you, forever.

Answer 7

Having something to hone in on can be a curse. I've always made art and drawn pictures since I was 5 and now in my last year of university I have made no friends, no one has taken any interest in my art and I am slowly realising that my life's work is most likely going to bring me nothing in the future. But I wont stop because no one cares. Gyms and blogs and meet ups and all the rest of th crap people suggest isn't going to bring your heart any calm. I don't have a solution to your problem but I can empathise. Life isn't easy, just survive today and hold onto your heart. An easy life isn't worth the effort.

Answer 8

So you have listed all of the things that you see as negatives and decided to sit around in a fog of misery. The one thing that you can do is to work towards setting small tasks with a view to building a different persona. You say that you are afraid to drive, ask yourself 'Is this because I may not be able to safely control a vehicle?' I ask this because it seems that you live in a protective bubble and having such a low self esteem is a safe place to be.

As for life goals, have you ever heard the old question 'How do you eat an elephant? The answer is 'in small bites.'

I would suggest that you think seriously regarding things that you find interesting and worthwhile, Animal welfare, disability, helping the aged, homeless people etc etc and look for voluntary organisations/ charities who need volunteers. People who work for these value volunteers and will welcome your help and support. It may be that working in such an environment and being valued for your kindness and willingness to learn may be a step towards a huge boost to your self esteem.

Answer 9

You are living with negative feelings. These feelings will push you more down and down and make your life useless. Only hope and belief can get you the opportunities for every good things you expect.



Human beings are ruled by spirits but humans must learn to control and rule the spirits. Spirits possess people according to the mental state of the human beings and keep them in the same state until they are rejected and replaced by another. This is an all time phenomena occurring in all humans. Human beings are always under the influence of spirits. Certain situations and circumstances causes the possession of certain type of spirits. Often thinking and talking about bad subjects or bad imaginations even for fun can take serious turns on one who think and talk. All spirits (good and bad) have the dominating character. They can take you to the extent of sacrifice or suicide.



All of your activities, talks and even thoughts determine what kind of spirits you will have for your life. Only these spirits are the reason for the good and bad happening in your life. Generally spirits determine your destiny from your daily activities, talks and thoughts too. All knowledge, skills, emotions, feelings, interests and everything are spirits. Even thoughts are not your own. For example, when you want to take a decision on a subject, one after another they think and you just listen and choose or reject the ideas which they transmit to your mind through your brain in the form of thoughts. A human being during his/her lifetime is living with many spirits which have joined one by one since birth. All human beings are just unprogrammed robots made of flesh, bones, tissues etc., by birth and toys of the spirits for their games.



You must not leave your mind in it's own way. If you do, the spirit will take your mind for it's own, then controlling it is not so easy. First of all you must think and believe that it's not you. Then you must command that spirit both mentally and orally to go. Whenever you are possessed by that thought you must divert your mind at once towards some other subject and stay in it for a while and then continue your duty. This is a mental exercise. You may also bring at once an opposite feeling through your imagination as if you are going to live a wealthy, happy and prosperous life in future. You must continue this exercise for few days. While doing this exercise you are creating an opposing spirit, i.e., a positive force. Soon this spirit gets stronger and eliminates the negative force. Within a few days you will be alright.



In short, your life depends on what you think. If you begin to think that you are becoming pretty or you will be pretty there will be some changes in your face appearance too. Try to find beauty in your face and admire it, then only your spirits can work in the way you think.

Answer 10

Yes I can give you one advice , not only for you but everyone out there but there is only one problem.That advice will not reach you , because of preconditioning like am this and am that , am going through this and going through that .

As the most important thing is first to know that who is this , who is the one who is conditioning this way .Once you will find the answer the very moment you will know the purpose of your life , no external element will be required to give you life advise .

Once you know who you are , that's it .But don't ask this to anyone , everyone including me will not able to tell you as it should be known by himself .

Answer 11

Remember this, the key to success is not who you think you are its who other people think you are. Lots of people will tell you be yourself but we all know if we're awkward we wont have respect. Be confident, Be motivated to change and most important learn to present yourself in a take no crap way. One more thing If you can't change yourself ..lie... make sure you can retell your lie with perfect accuracy and have proof your lie is true,cover your trail and compensate for variables. Take an improv class. Learn to lie right. Become an actor .Make your life goal about finding the person who you don't have to lie to.





The point of life is to live so live however you wan't.

Answer 12

Start planting! Lol this probably sounds ridiculous, but seriously start gardening. There was a point in my life where I was depressed, and finding things to care for that rely on me helped me out.You might be surprised. Other than that, start writing a diary. Cry once in a while. Try new things and find something that you enjoy, and then branch out and find people who enjoy that same thing. I hope I did you some well, and good luck!

Answer 13

You have the classic case of depression and anxiety. You're depressed so you talk sh!t about yourself. Your anxiety is through the roof to the point you can't even drive! When depression and anxiety start affecting basic abilities like driving and maintaining it is time to get professional help. You have a very real, and very serious, condition. At my place of work, we get many patients with different ailments. Everything from the common cold to serious mental and physical impairments and everything in between.You need professional therapy to help you through this and not some cookie cutter answer. Everyones depression and anxiety is different and should be treated according to your specific level.

Answer 14

You need to find a direction.

Go to your local library and take the Vocational Aptitude Tests.

This is a series of tests to narrow down your field, the one you are best suited for, the field you will be happiest working in, the one where you will make the greatest contribution.

You don't have to go into it strictly but it is extremely valuable to know what yours is in your career.

The test is free at the library. It will take a few hours of testing over a couple of weekends.

It will help you in picking where you need to go in jobs and further education.

It is not all about money, It is about enjoying your work.

Never let others tell you which way to go in your career.

After doing the test you will KNOW what to do and which way to turn.

The tests are free but require you to commit a few hours of time, a worthwhile investment for your future.



Find your path and take it.

Answer 15

Get selfish , and get tuff . try not to be so good . life is for fun if your not having any , you are doing it wrong . stay away from the normal life and step outside of that . be a new person ,recreate yourself . don't worry about what people think , their thoughts are for them to worry about , you take control of your own thoughts and you will someday find them flowing smoother . and your life will be better .

I wouldn't give this advice to a self absorbed person , that's why it's only for you . take my advice and you will be happier.

Answer 16

Edit2: Having a computer, YOU are one of these people who has had everything handed to them.



Edit1: If the registered democratic voters had gone out and voted Hillary Clinton would have won by a landslide. Stop blaming the republicans for what liberals have done to themselves because they (like the right) hate women.



I have a brain condition where I never feel "successful" or a sense of accomplishment at things. That doesn't stop me from doing good things and enjoying my life. Gert is right. You aren't ugly or stupid or disenfranchised, just lazy and blaming everything but yourself.



My advice would be look at each of those traits and realize you are misleading yourself. I am not as smart as Stephen Hawking but I am smart. You may not be as smart as me but you are smart. To say "I am not smart" is to compare yourself to some real or imaginary standard that is just not necessary. Unless you are hideous you are probably reasonably attractive with relatively symmetric features.

Answer 17

I would say, write down all of your interests and what you think you are good at. Or try different small jobs or volunteer or even take a test of what you'd like to be when you grow up or skills test. Circle things or words, occupations,skills, interest that speak to you on the page or list you've made of things. write down your dreams, goals or what you would like to do in life. Then do it. Asking others you know or who know you is a great why to find out more about yourself.

Answer 18

Take a deep breath. It is not easy to clear one's brain and come up with goals and a sense of direction etc. Some people take their whole life to try to find a sense of direction and then find none. Best option: live one day at a time and don't go nuts with high expectations.

Answer 19

What is a success ?The ancients said it was to have a healthy mind in a healthy bodySo work on your body. That may be a bit much same with the mind so lets look at possibilities. Do you have a dog why not look at being a dog carer .If you like dogs ,then dogs will like you . do you have a garden if not get a job looking after gardens it is nice to see a plant grow good luck

Answer 20

Well it sounds like you are in pretty much disrepair. That is not normal, or pleasant, so I'd get busy figuring out why you are in such disrepair, and then organizing a course of action to get your strength and spirit back. The big things are having a job, or school, and a group of friends. Both can be deliberately sought and found, if you make that your business to do.

Answer 21

No; as you may reject any advise that one may give you. maybe a little guidance may help.

You may have to learn how too redefine your 'self' in a more positive light.

Now, what is your favorite thing to do? Go make a living at it and you will never 'work' a day in your life.

Answer 22

"I don't know what I am capable of doing with my life."



When you don't know something, the next step is to learn it. When you say, I don't know what I'm capable of, you are, even if you don't realizing it, acknowledging that you are capable of something. So you can start with that. You are capable of something, then learn what that is.



"I'm not incredibly smart. I'm not artistic at all. I'm not athletic. I'm not pretty. I'm not even funny, nor do I have any social skills that will help me network."



Even if it were true that you are none of these things you have the potential to be any one of them. Not everyone is born with these gifts, but they can still be developed. The thing to remember is what makes you happy. Sometimes we do things that don't make us happy because we feel like the results will, but the result we want IS to be happy, so we should do things that do that for us. It is hard to be happy when you're depressed, but remember two things. Hard is just another way of saying possible and you don't even have to get out of depression to be happy. You can feel both happiness and sadness at the same time, to the extremes of joy and sorrow. You don't need to become anything. You just need to allow it. Then you can decide which of the two you want to have faith in overcoming the other, which one you want to surrender to.



"In fact I'm an emotional mess who is often depressed and is too afraid to drive, let alone undertake ambitious life goals."



Take the first step in the process of pursuing something, which is just to have your mind on that thing. Not to do anything, but to really think about what you want, considering why and what it will be like. After you've gained much clarity and likely some desire to motivate you does faith become involved. And that is because you need to decide on one of the two conflicting things in you. Fear or faith, doubts or belief, a new condition or your current one, the life you desire or the life you have. Wanting something isn't the same as making a decision. Wanting something bad enough can help you make the decision, but there are other ways to make it easier.



"I don't have a niche."



Where you are right now is a niche. You're life is always about the moment you're in. You were given this mountain so that you can show others (and yourself) it can be moved. That is one thing everyone is meant to own. This moment. This moment is yours. You can accept, value and honor it, or deny, hate and resist it. Love is always the answer. Love makes surrender sweet and resistance futile. Both sides point you in one direction. Victory!



How can someone like me be successful in life?



Understand that the way you feel now can be transformed into something entirely new. Integrated in fact, as you can even make suffering work for you. And the more you start to believe in yourself. The more you start to blossom. Because there is a huge difference between who you think you are, and the beautiful flower you will reveal yourself to be. Between the caterpillar and a butterfly. The caterpillar doesn't know its a butterfly until it goes through the process of transformation. You are on a journey of discovering who you really are. The more you do that, the more you will learn of your capabilities, your gifts, your nature, your place in this world, what you are meant to contribute, how to shape your life in alignment with all of these things. It's up to you, and everyone who knows how completely beautiful and unblemished the real you is, is waiting for you to be aware of it so you can share that with the world.

Answer 23

What do you enjoy doing? Anything? Maybe you could work at that. If you can't work at it, then work FOR it. You don't have to be pretty, smart, artistic or athletic to work at McDonalds or many other customer service related jobs. There is plenty you could do. In your case, sounds like you would fit into a job where you are told what to do, rather than figure things out for yourself... such as accounting, or other thought processing jobs. Look into skilled work... vocational work... office or factory work.

Answer 24

You are somewhat special, in that you are "of the common man" but especially seek to thrive, to become what your potential is, even if it's "mediocre" (which is not bad, as it's "average").



Even though you paint a no-greats portrait of how you see yourself, you do care for yourself and seek goodness, and that is worthwhile and a key to your improving success.



The search phrase "real work matters rwm.org" brings up a site with 100s of vocational opportunities in North America (and useful as a guide if you're e.g. in England). If you're able to find a trade that you are competent in, that is not too stressful or over-challenging, and that you like doing, then many of life's logistical issues are smoothed (steady income flow, ability to help people, self-esteem as in http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow's_hierarchy_of_needs ).



Secondly and thirdly, two factors you can somewhat influence are your health, by caring for your body with the general good nights' sleep, good healthy food, regular moderate exercise, walks in nature, gardening, and your relationship with divine Love, God, by reading inspiriational literature, the Bible, listening to an online sermon, e.g. at http://www.ligonier.org/learn/sermons/ attending a local church service.



For the marriage and relationship field, Shaunti Feldhahn's "For Couples Only" and Omraam Aivanhov's "Love and Sexuality" are worthwhile; generally, "The Great Divorce," "The Answer You're Looking for Is inside You," the "Chicken Soup for the Soul" series, and "The Road Less Traveled" are helpful.



Adding one more life advice: each paycheck, pay to your future self a modest or small, regular, investment in an interest-bearing retirement account. Five dollars every two weeks in one's twenties is actually more worthwhile than greater amounts later. And, perhaps consider taking care of a cat or other small animal, and/or contributing to a "feed the children" charity. Counselors such as at http://www.hopefortheheart.org 1-800-488-HOPE are also worth talking with.

Answer 25

Do not give up on life.. Life is beautiful... enjoy every second of it. Do not pull yourself down. Find things about what you love.Read motivational stories or movies. Then at least you will get what you want in this life from the inspiring stories.

Answer 26

What do you LIKE doing? Do you like interacting with people? Organising stuff? Do you like working with your hands? Or numbers?



Figure out what you enjoy doing, and start with that. Find out what you could do with it and go from there. It can be as simple or as advanced as you like. For example, you might enjoy working with fashion, but not be good at designing clothes, but there's no reason why you couldn't make a career out of advising other people on the best way to dress to enhance themselves.

Answer 27

everybody has a talent, everybody is capable of doing something. Look for that one thing you're really good and pursue to make the best of it. It'll lead to a positive outcome. You only have one life, don't waste it away by thinking negatively of yourself.

Answer 28

It is very hard to doing anything without the faith that you can. If you keep telling yourself you can't do anything, you probably wont. You problem isn't with capability, but with identity. You seem to define yourself by what "you are not", rather than what 'you are'. Maybe start with changing the way you see yourself, and consider you might be wrong.

Answer 29

I'm not sure if you're trying to make a political-economic point if you want solace for a fairly typical case of adolescent angst. If the former, cool, but there are better ways of making the point you seem to be trying to make. If the latter: the world will wag in its own way and in time your niche will find you.

Answer 30

My best life advice for you would be to find a partner who would be able to empathise with your state of mind, who can give you space, confidence and purpose through love and concern. Meanwhile try to keep your emotions in check and deliberately make efforts to be rational and logical in your thinking.



Death is no solution to anything in life.

Answer 31

1. Read the Sermon on the mound

2. Follow it.

3. Learn how to save and invest in slow growth mutual funds.

4. Retire before you're 55

Answer 32

1. Have the courage to live a life true to yourself,not the life others expect of you.

2.Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity.

3.There is nothing noble is being superior to yellow man,true nobility is being superior to your former self

4.Don't make decision when your angry ,Don;t make promises when your happy

5.Never argue with a stupid person.

Answer 33

Depressed people have a hard time in college. No enthusiasm and no network of friends. Have you looked into a trade school? If you take welding or HVAC the studies will concentrate on the skills you need, so you get through it faster.

Answer 34

start planting! lol this probably sounds ridiculous, but seriously start gardening... there was a point in my life where i was depressed, and finding things to care for that rely on me helped me out...you might be surprised... other than that, start writing a diary... cry once in a while... try new things and find something that you enjoy, and then branch out and find people who enjoy that same thing... i hope i did you some well, and good luck!

Answer 35

For every action there is an infinite number of reactions and within each and every one of them.



You must learn a new way to think before you can master a new way to be. This is because

we must be willing to accept that what we experience has only the value we choose to give it, it is how we receive it, and if it is in a way that helps us to grow , change and evolve. How we think limits who we believe ourselves to be or determines how we may not be limited. If we don't believe in ourselves then we aren't open , willing to accept what we can be, the potential to be that person is not there, rather the potential to be who we believe ourselves to be is there.



This is also why if we want good things to happen in our lives, we first have to believe that good things are possible for ourselves. Allowing negative and cynical thinking to get in the way of what we deserve or want, makes us unwilling to accept that what we experience has the potential and value to bring to us a greater, better life. It makes us close off to growth and change and evolution.



We have to recognize the darkness before we know the light, in self awareness the two exist simultaneously to each other. The two predetermine one another non linearly and as one universal whole. All that we see and experience is predetermined through the simultaneously existence of the two. Our evolution is deliberate, deliberate through mistakes, darkness and then it's transformation into light. The two exist as one.



Light is what we are, darkness is the illusion of what we are, self awareness is the awareness from both.



Life is as we are. This is because each and every one of us possess the universal whole. For every action there is an infinite number of reactions and within each and every one of them. This means that within every action, or reaction, the entire universal whole exists simultaneously to each and every one of them. Each and every one of us possess the universal whole. The universal whole is predetermined to exist simultaneously to us, as we are predetermined to exist simultaneously to it.



Because love is eternal, It's sort of like a latent image of who, what we really are. It's nonlinear, predetermined. All things are nonlinear, predetermined. Everything within the universal whole equates to the universal whole. Everything we, do , feel experience is in both the form of teacher and student simultaneously, an active and passive role simultaneously. As all is illusion and love simultaneously. We must know the darkness to know the light, simultaneously, the two together simultaneously are eternal awareness. This eternal awareness is infinite, unconditional, all for a greater good, and a greater good for all, without beginning or ending.



Every person, object and thing, is whole to the universe. This is because with every action and it's reaction, occurring simultaneously and occurring within infinite reactions to every reaction,and in each and every one of them... each and every one of them becomes a unified whole, as each one of them is possessed within a unified whole, and the unified whole possess each of them equally, each of them therefor possess the unified whole their self.



Everything is in motion. And the particle's within everything are never in one place. Therefore, if it's never in one place, it never is, is it? Nothing is really there, it's just more likely to be there than it isn't to be there. As Warner Heisenberg once said, "The atoms or elementary particles themselves are not real; they form a world of potentialities or possibilities rather than one of things or facts."Werner Heisenberg



The illusion is also in form. Thoughts are arrangements of energy that are divided and separate from the whole, so they appear. Thought forms, emotional forms. They divide. Simultaneously no forms are divided. These forms evolve, simultaneously they are already evolved. These forms have lower states, such as negativity, pain, suffering. These forms create attachment to illusion. Simultaneously these forms set us free. They come in the essence of lessons, love, truth, source. They are self awareness. Everything is predetermined to serve as a great good, and in each and every one of us. Darkness and light exists simultaneously in all of us to serve as an all inclusive light shining within us all, and equally.

Love is an unconditional binding force of self awareness, infinite and great, encompassing all that can be, ever will be as one, and one all at once. The universe bends to each and every one of our wills, as each and every one of us is evolving and at our own pace, the universe gives us both what we ask for and need to evolve into a higher state of awareness. We are allowed to co create because there is no right or wrong path to enlightenment and each and every one of us has our own path, that the universe works with us for us to follow and reach our own enlightenment.



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Answer 36

Well you came to the right place. Misery loves company, and so many people are just hard luck. The people who succeed do NOT work less, "just happens." It is the same for everyone, the more chances you take, the more likelihood of succeeding. It's a numbers game, and you don't get anything unless there is a risk. Just love life, stop the negative self-talk. There is a risk in talking about your feelings.

So begrudge no one your peace of mind. All you have and all you are, is nothing but you. LOL this stuff is bull-**** because you do and think and believe what you want. "A man convinced against his will, is of the same opinion still."

Answer 37

hi

Answer 38

If you are a girl, you can become a prostitute. Or a hooker. Or you can have sex. Having sex is fun and you will like it. (Lol I never had it) TRY IT

Answer 39

my grandmother told me "whatever you do,don't get old" hmmmmm some of this is difficult to by pass, but there is the challenge a positive one of course

Answer 40

Just be yourself its all you got if you don't like who you are then ask yourself why you don't and make a list of what you do like what you don't

like improve of the likes and improve the dislikes

BUT BE TRUE TO YOURSELF DON'T BE A SHEEP

BUILD UP YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE AND SELF ETEEM

Answer 41

Something that's helped me make choices is realizing that choices are events that happen within physical reality and are bound by physics, meaning my will to do something did not begin with me. EVERYTHING in the universe is like dominoes falling over, and the big bang is the finger that knocked over the first one. Everything you'll ever choose to do, the way you're gonna die, everything in the universe is predetermined because everything is already set in motion, hence the illusion of time. Time is an illusion because all of it exists simultaneously.

Answer 42

just you run your own mind

Answer 43

I've always been told that I appear to find a positive in just about anything, and in you I see lots of potential whether you like it or not. Do you think you're the only one out there that feels this way? I'm going to suggest that you start a blog on your daily life and all the events that happen to you daily that makes you feel such a failure as I don't think that in the slightest. I think you've got a lot to offer society, that believe it or not will change your outlook on how you see yourself and the world around you. Please do this and let me know how it works out.

Answer 44

Work the corner.

Answer 45

go To school, learn what the teacher taches you,

listen to the teacher, while we are young.

becasue when one gets old i hear

they can't learn very much.

learn one thing the key word is one.

learn one thing. don't keep moving from

one thing to another thing just learn one thing.

that could be building a house or

driving from place to place driving.

dancing learn to dance learn the moves.

learn to act take an acting class

this started me studying. and writing.

Oh and Jesus talks to me sometimes.

to bless other folks yeah whooooo!

God bless youuuuuuuu

Answer 46

You are depressed. And honestly, the best thing to do is to take a deep breath. Then, take a walk outside, mindful of everything inside you. Accept it, and keep walking. Contact various places to get therapy as well.

Answer 47

You need friends. You need a family, or a tribe, of people with whom you can cooperate and share life. You need the yin to your yang. You might have to get lucky to find the right bunch that can help you, and be helped by you.

Answer 48

Anyone can be successful. However, if you feel sorry for yourself and make excuses, you could sit still for a long time. Dig in, do something. You sound lazy to me.

Answer 49

First off you should challenge your fear of driving. Take more lessons if necessary and once you overcome that fear you'll be confident to tackle other areas of your life.

Answer 50

It's just nature's way of telling you to have a baby.

Answer 51

why this drive to be a "success" whatever that means. What seems to be happening here is a lack of love, love of life, love for yourself, Who cares what others think of you, in fact who cares what you think of yourself. What you need to do is to find where you are in your body. Your center. Then you will find your success.

Answer 52

Read the Bible. Start with the New Testament, Gospel of John. I asked Jesus Christ into my life as Lord and Savior many years ago and He has helped me with all sorts of problems and blessed me a lot and given me a home in heaven. I recommend Him to you. He is a faithful friend. Pray for God's will and direction in your life. Look for a Bible-believing church to attend, like Baptist.

Answer 53

Dante is right all what you said is irrelevant it's because you don't beleive in yourself your the captain of your ship, have confidence in yourself b

Answer 54

Stand for next president of the US, you seem ideally qualified. There may be a vacancy coming up soon.

Answer 55

someone told me that you can be anyone if you want... you can be trained to be a nurse in two to three years, study to be a lawyer or a Barrister... l look at her children who studied hard and have house, children ect., so l know believe how true she was in saying that...

Answer 56

THERE IS A POWERFUL TEXT that might give you a boost in your daily & hourly times of difficulty Also The 4 min.video "Why Study the Bible" This might help that we all need @



https://www.jw.org/en/jehovahs-witnesses/free-bible-study/video-why-study-the-bible/#?insight

Answer 57

Look in the details, learn from the greats... so many beautiful minds wrestled with these same things.

Answer 58

Perhaps if you shed the notion "I'm not incredibly smart." you may have more of a chance of success in your search.

Answer 59

Learn AI.Make right effort.Go extra miles.

Answer 60

Your one and only problem is that you don't believe in yourself.

Answer 61

Take it easy relax All the time y do u want to have skills

Answer 62

that's life. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KIiUqfxFttM

Answer 63

in my opinion, you should go find someone that's just like you.

Answer 64

You need therapy.

Answer 65

let me think a sec

Answer 66

Be grateful to everyone. Say, "Thank you."

Answer 67

Read.

Answer 68

factory work