Chopra is irrational. Anyone who contradicts objectivity is irrational. That doesn't mean "nuts" or "insane"; it means not logical.
"PLAYBOY: Where, would you say, should romantic love fit into the life of a rational person whose single driving passion is work?
AYN RAND: It is his greatest reward. The only man capable of experiencing a profound romantic love is the man driven by passion for his work -- because love is an expression of self-esteem, of the deepest values in a man's or a woman's character. One falls in love with the person who shares these values. If a man has no clearly defined values, and no moral character, he is not able to appreciate another person. In this respect, I would like to quote from The Fountainhead, in which the hero utters a line that has often been quoted by readers: "To say 'I love you' one must know first how to say the 'I.'"
Chopra sees love as without clearly defined values, and no moral character.
"PLAYBOY: You hold that one's own happiness is the highest end, and that self-sacrifice is immoral. Does this apply to love as well as work?
RAND: To love more than to anything else. When you are in love, it means that the person you love is of great personal, selfish importance to you and to your life.
Chopra obviously believes that men are not capable of "great personal, selfish, important" love.
That is irrational
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