Question:
What to do with life?
2011-07-23 05:39:48 UTC
when u r in complete mess, dont know where to go, what u will do?
Thirteen answers:
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2011-07-23 09:21:01 UTC
every difficulty is an opportunity in disguise..... This is very true ..... Try to learn from your failures... analyze them... they will show you very different and colorful image of the world.
Bunny
2011-07-23 13:44:14 UTC
Good question, this stage of thinking will happen to only certain persons only when they are in some stage of situation. This will happen to someone only, u r the luckiest person to know that what is life, why we are here. Well coming to that point, first of all u have to be cool, and u have to be relax in all the situation, be patient in every work, remove sadness from u r life.. be happy and make the others happy, it will show the full happiness in our life, u r disturbing u r life with some mess, dont think abt all these things, in life we have to accept all hurdles, we have to welcome them with smile, after hurdles u r having the ultimate happiness in life. Try to be happy and Make others happy... This is all the answers for what u r searching.
leukus
2011-07-23 12:57:42 UTC
The truth is you want to get out of that mess you're in. Now how are you going to do that? First analyze your self, what are your good points and what are your weak points? Second, what causes the mess your in? What are you capable of in order to get off these mess? What other options you can do so that no other mess would entangle your situation? and finally ACT to resolved what you want and do it without fail!



Many do not succeed because they do not know what they want. You want to be happy right then strive to be happy and be at peace with yourself. And remember happiness can not be found anywhere it is created within you and share it to activate its fruits.
Etcha Sketch
2011-07-23 13:00:06 UTC
When MY life was like that, and I was finally ready to do something about it, I did it slow! Tackle one issue at a time. After 1 or 2 issues are resolved, they will give you the confidence to continue on to the more difficult ones. Just do the next best right thing in front on you because EVERYthing else will follow in due time. Usually, issues have one common denominator. Find that common denominator, and tweak in a bit. Improve it. It doesn't have to be drastic change. Strive just to improve daily. Realize that nothing and no thing happens overnight. It takes time, energy, and footwork. It took me over a year before I was even able to see even a little success. Those "little" successes are needed to give you confidence to continue onto improve the bigger issues. Don't be afraid to ask for guidance. Don't pressure yourself to be perfect. Just vow to yourself that you are going to improve yourself on a daily basis. Do right things, and do things rightly. Many issues stem from negative thought patterns. Change the way you think about things to a more of a positive way, and you will see positives changes come your way.



People often think thought can be kept secret. It cannot. It rapidly crystallizes into habit, and habit solidifies into circumstance.
2011-07-23 13:15:41 UTC
Chocolate is said to be a natural anti-depressant to get rid of depression. I eat one first.



And when I feel regret, guilt or anger, I just started a journal and write it down. I discovered this to be therapeutic and calms me down from a messy situation, but you have to put down what happened as exactly how it happened.



Another way is to try talking to someone. It must be someone you can trust, a person who is in your family or a friend. You can even talk to a life coach if you like, and some of these people offer their services for free. The point of talking to someone is that your problems and other issues shouldn't be bottled down inside of you. If you still have that "chip in your shoulders", you'll likely blow up anytime like sleeping volcano.
Tash
2011-07-23 12:43:07 UTC
Depends, but I would definitely ask someone for help. Try to fix the mess that I've created and get my self out of that situation.
2011-07-23 13:52:15 UTC
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Transcend your circumstances.





The Greatest Secret Human Power, 4-11

Win By Using Reality



By Generalist

“Why me?”

“Why is life so unfair?”

“What can I do about it?”

“How can I be smarter?”

“Why is my life boring?”





These questions express people’s real pain and uncertainty about the circumstances they feel trapped in. It is better to win than to repeatedly ask these questions.



The greatest secret human power is to open, and develop according to, ones own potential.

The knowledge of this power is ordinarily scattered in many philosophies, religions, hopes and aphorisms. That keeps it secret.



Here, the essence is unified into a single practice that enables anyone to manifest his-er power. It is difficult to act on information that comes from outside the accustomed conventions, yet, that is where the greatest opportunity is found.





 We create our lives through the interactions between circumstances and the beliefs we harbor.-Tiantai

 We have the power to examine those beliefs and change the ones that don’t produce value.-Makiguchi

 We can win in life no matter what the circumstances.-Toda

 We can make the entire world into a haven of peace, culture, and education.-Ikeda





In ancient India, one man wondered if there weren’t a way to use the power inherent in everyone and end suffering. He set out on an intense exploration of the learning and practices available. They were all inadequate to help everyone and anyone. He determined to find the path himself.



He did, and began to teach.



After 40 years, he had a group of students who were trained enough to walk his walk. What he had to transmit was so revolutionary that he couched the teachings in allegory, metaphors and parables. These were studied, debated, written about for centuries in India, China, Korea and Japan. Many paths were developed. The most complete was the 28 chapter Lotus Sutra. Its title, in Japanese, is Myoho Renge Kyo. It was difficult to understand and accept because it opens the individual’s capacities and responsibilities. Another problem is the hyperbolic depictions. They describe the promise and the joy of liberation as physical events. This is comparable to the Hindu god who has multiple abilities and is depicted with many arms.



Then, Nichiren, in thirteenth century Japan, connected all the dots. He recognized that the way to use the secret power was to move on with determination to clear the mind and improve life. To enable the clearing of the mind and replacing error with wisdom, the element of focus, determination, respect had to be added to Myoho Renge Kyo. He used the Sanskrit term namas, shortened to nam.



This activates the secret power and makes it public.



What Isaac Newton did for gravity, Nichiren did for all of life.

I have listed the main points and the words in Japanese. They are capitalized for clarity.



1-Things are always changing, yet the underlying realities common to all life do not change. -KYO

2- -Causes produce effects. Sometimes this is not obvious because of the time lag between cause and perceived effect. RENGE -Renge also means that we can choose to release limitations at any time like the opening of a perfect lotus growing in mud.

3-Life is both physical and non-physical. –MYOHO This is the term that includes the limited aspect of the tangible and the unlimited aspects of the intangible, and their inseparability.

4-Humans have the ability to respect the truth, to focus their minds, and achieve great results. -NAM



The transcendence of circumstances is founded on the repeated speaking of the sentence Nam Myoho Renge Kyo alone, and with others. This strengthens synaptic connections based on recognized truth and weakens those based on distortions. The mind-heart-body is unified in the effort.



Nichiren’s method works for all of life, whether people believe in it, or not, as long as they try it with a focus on improvement.



Source(s):

My own experiences: phenomenal changes as a result of reciting the formula and working with the SGI for peace, culture and happiness. Caution, translation difficulties and cultural usages tend to cause many people to regard using their secret power as a religion because it is called Buddhism. The original documents show that Nichiren did not intend for people to rely on a power beyond their own capacities for transcending limitations.

If you wish further information, use the links.

http://www.sgi.org , http://www.sgi-usa.org
Deja Vu
2011-07-23 19:22:19 UTC
check into a rehab facility to straighten out and move on in life!
Alexis
2011-07-23 12:42:44 UTC
Im in that situation.... I haven't found the answer yet.
?
2011-07-23 14:52:53 UTC
search your soul, the answers lie within.
Parham Parham
2011-07-23 13:09:32 UTC
I am exactly in that situation.I think you should first improve your self-knowledge.
2011-07-23 12:41:46 UTC
take it one step at a time. deal with one thing at a time
?
2011-07-23 13:28:56 UTC
make cookies and cakes


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