Question:
Today I got to know that maybe I will die soon....do you think I'm calm enough about it ?
2012-08-19 03:22:11 UTC
I'm 17 years old girl. I've found out in the morning that I got some chance to die. I cried a little, but now I'm feeling okay....well not okay, but I realized that panic and anxiety won't solve the problem anyway. I love to live. I like this life very much, this life is great and precious and many people don't value this life properly....I was one of those persons, but today I truly feel that I would give anything to remain alive. It's actually funny because I cured myself from depression and some other mental problems, so now I could live mentally healthy...and now surprise: maybe I will die because of a physical problem.

I just want to make sure that I manage this situation properly.....I didn't speak with anybody about this, but tried to calm myself down and now I'm having this thought in my head: " This life is great and I want to continue living...but if I'll die then I will die, there's no point to stress myself out. "
Do you think I managed well my situation ?
Eight answers:
2012-08-19 08:35:12 UTC
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Albert
2012-08-19 03:36:21 UTC
Hey, it's not the end of the world, no matter how cliche that sounds, just trust me. It might be hard to understand, accept or even believe what's happening in your body or what people or doctors could tell. But life is a roller coaster remember, the odds of bad stuff happening is just as likely as good stuff.



You handled the situation very well BUT you might want to tell the people you care for about this because they will have a harder time if something bad does happen, but don't dwell and keep bringing the matter up once you've told them, just live a normal life after!



I try to live everyday of my life like it's my last, I've had my share of near death experiences and they were actually what drove me to live a better life. I've been depressed and wanted to commit suicide, I've avoided lethal car accidents, but hey, because of these, I live a more colorful life. I spent more time with friends, did better at school and even became closer with my family (something I never thought would have happened). I suggest you do the same :).



I'm not a Buddhist nor do I think any religion is higher than another but I do believe this:



"When the body disintegrates at death the mind does not cease.". -Buddhism Beliefs



Remember that you mind is SO POWERFUL, that whatever you think death is, could be what you get once you pass. Scientists believe that we simply become another form of energy, some religions believe of a heaven or hell, and some people believe we go in to the state of nothingness. I believe, whatever your mind set on death was before you died would be what you would live in eternity.
2012-08-19 03:37:10 UTC
You say that u have "some chance" to die. If there is anything that you really want to do, now is the time to do it .If things work out, and you don't die, remember how you felt about how "precious" life is .I was in your situation 45 years ago, and it was a false alarm, and I learned from the experience.Good luck!
musicluvah
2012-08-19 03:27:20 UTC
Omg... Reading this is literally making my eyes watery, I can't help but feel empathy.. Your only 17 :\

Your handling your situation well, in my opinion.. Your handling it better than I would, my brother recently told me a story about this little boy who died like 3 times before being revived by the hospital and while he was dead he said he saw Jesus, and his sister. He told his parents about it and they was surprised because his sister died before he even existed, she was a miscarriage and they never told the little boy, the little boy was only 5 years old and he claimed Jesus told him all of that. I'm not sure if you believe in God but I hope you do and I will pray for you, I know I don't know you but I only want whats best for you and if you go I think you deserve to be in a happy, peaceful place... I hope you don't die though :( God bless.
2012-08-19 04:10:10 UTC
Poor girl. Let me give you a hug. Be strong 'k?



PS You should be doing okay.
Ally
2012-08-19 03:41:59 UTC
You're handling the situation extremely well!

I am literally about to cry. Oh my god. :(
Jesere
2012-08-19 16:07:26 UTC
No, if you are dying you are in denial...



You are to vague in your description.

What are you dying of...?

Is this just an attempt for attention?
Fake Genius
2012-08-19 03:33:58 UTC
congratulation!

but

you have not visited Africa yet.

just visit youtube videos and watch wildlife and you'll get better.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mgAH9h3S5Sk&feature=my_liked_videos&list=LL4jC5dw8MWB7Ymn3wRvWK-w

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jt0r8m0CcXs&feature=my_liked_videos&list=LL4jC5dw8MWB7Ymn3wRvWK-w



some native tribes are interesting too... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yXkdulz4mQc&feature=my_liked_videos&list=LL4jC5dw8MWB7Ymn3wRvWK-w


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